You are funny, charming and friendly when you are around people. But then suddenly you become weird and uncomfortable, like a totally different person, when you are with a guy you really like. You think you know how to flirt with a guy but ought you to? We feel the pressure to be flirtatious, fun and cute when we are around someone we like and get this person to like us. But instead, either we become pushy and awkward or so shy we can't even speak normally. So what, guess what? Flirting doesn't get as hard as you thought. You need just confidence and some practice, and you can get any guy you want. Here are the guidelines for flirting online what are sure to lead to a first date.
Share A Common Interest
Just the other day, a guy I like posted seeing the new Avengers: Infinity War video. Funny enough, it turned out at the same time we were watching him!
For me, it was a great start to a conversation. If you want to start an online conversation, start it casually.
You don't need any sophisticated flirting tactics, just ask him about a film you've both enjoyed, tell him you love the song he posted, or follow up on something you've talked about earlier, if you know each other already.
Tease Him
This is one of the flirting methods online which has worked well for me so far. Guys enjoy chasing girls but it's someone who challenges them when they reach their match that really throws them off their game. To taunt him, use your sense of humor and you'll drive him crazy. Stay away from controversial or contentious subjects and keep the conversation enjoyable and light-hearted. This fun banter can make him want to continue to talk with you for hours.
Be Confident
One wonderful thing about online flirting is being completely in charge of how the other person would view you.
So, even if in real life you 're a little nervous and awkward around guys, chatting online will give you enough time to get a perfect answer and sound calm and comfortable.
Take this opportunity to joke, throw in some sexy vague lines which will leave him confused and show him how lucky he is to talk to you. And if you see the conversation going well, don't be afraid to be blunt, and ask him on a date.
Leave Him Wanting More
When I talk with a guy I like, I have a rule: to always be the first to leave.
I know, the talk is so enjoyable sometimes that it's going on for hours and you just don't want to say good-bye. And you may feel a little too old to be playing these games. Yet don't you hate it when he says he has to leave in the midst of a massive convoy?
Be the first to say good-bye and leave him wanting more. You 're going to feel more in control and make him nuts before you talk the next time.
